John David Mann is coauthor of the international bestseller, The Go-Giver. The book has been published in 22 languages and has sold over 700,000 copies. In addition to being an award-winning writer and coauthor of numerous New York Times bestselling books, he is also a concert cellist and prize-winning composer.

Listening = Loving

Chelle O’Connell, a new friend who just read The Go-Giver, writes in with this observation: After 25 years of marriage, I realized that there is more than one meaning for the word “listen.” My ex-husband frequently said, “You aren’t listening to me.” I would ask for his advice or input, and if I didn’t do…